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Kelso's Choices

Kelso's Choices is a conflict management program for elementary students featuring nine strategies to resolve "small" problems (annoyance, boredom) on their own, encouraging them to try options before seeking adult help for "big" (dangerous/scary) problems.

There are verbal and non-verbal choices to solve "minor problems."

Verbal Choices Non-Verbal Choices
     Make a deal (Negotiate)      Wait and cool off
     Tell them to stop      Walk away
     Apologize      Go to another activity
     Talk it out      Ignore it

Affirming Quotes

"It only takes one person to change your life: YOU!"

"I am strong because I've been weak. I am fearless because I've been afraid. I am wise because I've been foolish."

"A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking because its trust is not on the branch but on its own wings. Always believe in yourself." - Charlie Wardle